Most of us have been brought up on the idea of finding something outside ourselves that will make us happy. It’s a hoax, of course.
This is something foisted on us by the Church and other major religions, wanting to usurp natural values and substitute their own particular cuckoo’s egg instead. By far the worst hoax they peddle is that happiness is some other time, some remote future, an afterlife, some other dimension. We think we have been stuck with this one far too long and it is now difficult to shake off.
It has become what we call in Supernoetics™ a cultural implant. We grow up constantly brainwashed to the belief that some time hence we will get what we desire. As a child, we yearn only to grow up. We go through school wishing for it to end and looking forward to freedom. In our teens we want to be men and women, who can marry, have kids and settle down. But life is never quite as we pictured it and we end up subscribing to the idea that we’ll feel great on weekends and holidays. Eventually, when the burden of work and living seems cemented in place, we start to dream that all will be roses and delight when we retire.
But when it isn’t, what is left? Time has all but run out before we discover for ourselves the fraud that the future is no place. When we reach it we have only NOW, which we had all along –but failed to notice or cherish, as it fleeted by.
Regard the warning words of Oliver Wendell Holmes “Too many people die with their music still in them. Why is it so? Too often it is because they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time has run out.“
There is no tomorrow; it is only a potentiality. It is what you make it. The past is gone: only we insist on dragging it around with us, to hurt ourselves with painful memories.
As Heraclitus said, the only thing that never changes is change. It is with us all the time. Zen Buddhism is a philosophy peculiarly integrated with the flow of change. This makes it a keynote psychology as much as a religion. To the Zen initiate, life is likened to a river: as it flows it changes. Yes, it is the same river. But it is never exactly the same. “You cannot step into the same river twice”, Heraclitus told his pupils. Life is ceaseless change. The only certainty is now because you have it in your hand.
We feel pressured by accumulating burden of painful yesterdays and fearful tomorrows. But what is all that about, when you start to think about it logically?
As Dale Carnegie put it so well in How To Stop Worrying And Start Living: “You and I are standing this very second at the meeting-place of two eternities: the vast past that has endured for ever, and the future that is plunging on to the last syllable of recorded time“.
He goes on to make his real point: “We can’t possibly live in either of these eternities–no, not even for one split second. But, by trying to do so, we can wreck both our bodies and minds“.
So now let’s be content to live in our allotted time span–which is not “three score years and ten”, but from NOW until bedtime!
“Anyone can carry his burden, however hard, until nightfall,” wrote Robert Louis Stevenson. “Anyone can do his work, however hard, for one day. Anyone can live sweetly, patiently, lovingly, purely, till the sun goes down. And this is all that life really means.”
A Zen Memory Exercise
When you look back at what you have been doing, the moments you find easiest to recall are the times when you were most conscious or ‘awake’ while events were taking place.
The following is a time-honoured Zen approach to raising the level of consciousness.
Go over, in your mind, the precise events of the last twenty four hours. Get as much detail as you can. Whenever you sit down, at a rest point, having done some significant action such as going shopping, a board meeting or whatever, again, go over the sequence of events in precise detail, paying attention to all the sensory modalities–sight, sound, touch, body position, etc–and the emotion.
You will find that you get better and better at doing this, and that as a result you stay more fully conscious in the here and now. In a nutshell, that’s what Zen is!
Your derision of the church is unwarranted. The church offers a way to achieve happiness. Sacrificing happiness now for the promise of an afterlife was never part of my religion. I am a Catholic, born and raised.
The message has always been, “Are you prepared to die today?”
Take action, accomplish things today, there may not be a tomorrow. The other side of that coin is prepare for a life you want to live. Put in the work and make the sacrifices, you need to have your life work every moment of every day.
God isn’t just a heavenly being waiting for you in the afterlife. He is here for you today and everyday. Enrich your life, get closer to God.
I don’t normally allow Christian propaganda of this sort Jim.
It’s not a comment, really.
You see, there are people all over the world on my list, many faiths and religions.
Christianity is not the only path, far from it.
I would like somebody to explain why there are so many different Christian churches. They all say they are following the exact words of the Bible, but yet they seem to almost hate each other in some respects. Is a Chiristian not simply a person who believes in Christ? Each kind or version seems to think that THEIR particular group is the correct one. Can they also explain where exactly heaven is? Are there special ‘apartments’ for all the different religions? A great deal of what is believed to be the one and only right way simply makes no sense to me.
It’s all fundamentalist dogma Estelle. Everyone fighting for their own turf and to control as many people as possible.
It’s beyond silly… it’s wicked in the extreme.
The preaching of “there is only NOW” is getting very tired. What’s more, it seems to be a semantic issue. Ok, so there is only now and there has only been now. This doesn’t change the unalterable fact that the now when I was eight is different than the now when I am eighty, should I make it that age. So, saying there is neither past nor future is just a matter of terminology. Change the terms to past-present and a future-present and it should be rather clear. Yes, it is always the present moment. It was the present moment when you were a child and it will be the present moment when you are elderly, but those moments (though both present at the time) are very different.